Category Archives: Slink

Drain my heart.

Pose : Lushish Poses - Spank me Daddy f (Note: This is NOT a bento pose. I used my ao, but you can find a bento hand pose hud on Marketplace, too!)
Props : Fireplace : LISP - Mesh - Artemis Fireplace
Cat : *HEXtraordinary* Nope Cat - Mistletoe Hat (Gacha)
Chair : dust bunny . my plaid chair
Side Table :  dust bunny . round end table
Cookies :  dust bunny . tree cookies

"The empty vessel makes the loudest sound."

It's pretty easy to find quotes to relate to any moment in your life, such is the beauty of the interwebs. I'm guessing even if my opinion was different, I would be able to find an appropriate quote to fulfill that, too.
I do love me some Shakespeare though!
This is a very brief write-up today because my spoon count is low, but just remember kids, unless you've walked in the same shoes, the same footprints as someone, you don't know them. 
And most of all, consider your sources.

All of the things : 

Body & Feet : -Belleza- Freya 
Skin : Insol 'Peach' 
Lingerie & Pearls : *MC* Naughty & Nice Lingerie For Bound Box December
Hands : Slink Hands - Dynamic
Nails : Astralia - Compatible mesh nails system
Nail Polish : Hello Dave - Nail Appliers - Astralia - The French One
Butt Applier : W:6 Red Ass and boobs Xmas Special @ Bodyfy 

2017 1210 Mon Cheri Naughty & Nice Lingerie for Bound Box | We Love Role-Play – Artisan Fantasy

Naughty and Nice>

--- Mon Chéri for Bound Box December

*MC* Naughty & Nice Lingerie
*MC* Naughty & Nice Bra / Slink HOURGLASS / Fatpack
*MC* Naughty & Nice Body Pearls / Slink HOURGLASS / Fatpack
*MC* Naughty & Nice Panty / Slink HOURGLASS / Fatpack

--- We<3RP  - Artisan Fantasy

*AF* 2017 Christmas Entry Set
*AF* 2017 Holiday Entry Table
*AF* 2017 Holiday Packages Gold
*AF* 2017 Holiday Packages Red & Green
*AF* 2017 Holiday Wreath
*AF* 2017 Mail Holder
*AF* 2017 Photo Holder
*AF* 2017 Table Top Tree

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2017 1210 We Love Role-Play – Salt & Pepper Teisha


--- We<3RP

Salt & Pepper Teisha
S&P Teisha helmet hair
S&P Teisha bodysuit HG

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A fate resigned.

Pose : FOXCITY. Milk Bath VOL2-6m
Location :  Consent (Adult)

Bodyfy opens today. For those who aren't aware of the event, it's a tattoo/body modification/scarification event, and it's been running for over a year now.
I'm always trying to find new ways to blog and photograph full tattoos. I feel like it's important to keep the creativity while showing as much of the body-art as possible. I'm not a fan of throwing my nips&bits out there willy nilly in photography, so hopefully what I've done here has managed to keep an element of class.
I'm really proud of my last few pictures. I'm not naturally talented, and often they take a lot of effort and a bit of wiggling. Today I added the ripples in the bathwater, and I got so ridiculously happy about it that I MAY have squee'd to myself!!
I hope you enjoy this little postie!

All of the things : 

 Body: -Belleza- Freya 
Skin : Lara Hurley- Beth
Head : CATWA Lona
Eyelids : Slink Mesh eyelids (No longer available in store, but if you ask really nicely in a note, you MIGHT get them from slink customer service like I did on an alt *coughs*)
Hairbase & Hair : *barberyumyum*P02(anime)
Freckles & Moles :  Bossie. freckles & beauty marks [catwa]
Piercing :  -SU!-Medusa Piercing (I think this is a group gift?)
Tattoo : [ATI] Jayce...Bodyfy (open NOW!)

Indigo nights.

Pose : .HG. Coy 2

Music, and the poetry of words hits you right in the feels.
The song I'm using today is "Satellite" by Gabbie Hanna. Apparently, she's a semi-well known youtube vlogger, but honestly, I'm not entirely aware of her presence there. 
Her song, however, hit me hard.
I've already described myself as slightly anxious, but I often have issues with social settings too. I'm convinced that as we start to rely more on the internet to socialize this is going to become a common problem. However, online I tend to be slightly more outgoing than that of the real me. Whether that's because i'm subconsciously masking the parts of me I don't like, or I have more confidence behind an avatar, I'm not entirely sure. What I do know, is that sometimes, I just CAN'T people.
I say the wrong things from the beginning. I forget new people don't know me, and don't understand my humor, so I backtrack and confuse myself and them.
Listen to the lyrics of this one, please. She might not be Beyonce, but give it a chance. Maybe you'll relate too.

All of the things : 

Body: -Belleza- Freya 
Skin : Lara Hurley- Beth
Head : CATWA Lona
Eyes : CATWA Mesh Eyes 
Eye Applier : LOTUS. Lovely Eyes @ The Chapter Four
Frosty Face Appliers : Izzie's - Face Snow 
Hair & Hat : Action Inkubator HAIR Lulu
Tattoo : -Endless Pain Tattoos- Dawn Bodyfy (Opens 8th Dec)
Shirt : _CandyDoll_ Mala Bodysuit White (Gacha item)
Hands : Slink Hands - Dynamic
Nails : Astralia - Compatible mesh nails system
Nail Polish : Hello Dave - Nail Appliers - Astralia - The French One
Rings : (Yummy) Serena Rings @ N21

This is the why.

Pose : FOXCITY Lounge-5 (Fatpack exclusive)
Props : ionic : Rooftop Chimneys & Antennas
{anc} mist cloud&nebra beads [sungold]

Sometimes when I put an outfit together I get an "Oh no bb, what is you doing?" moment. Not gonna lie, I sorta had that with this one, but incorporating a story behind the outfit really helps for me.
See, in this picture I've been out all night. I've half undressed in a semi-drunken stupor, pulling on a comfortable pair of shorts and fallen into bed, exhausted from a night of dancing and drinking.
At some point in the early morning, I've woken up with cotton-mouth, and reached over for a glass of water. After sating my thirst, I've decided to sneak out of the window and hop up to the roof for a cheeky smoke, adorning my feet with the shoes I wore the night before in order to watch the sun rise and the stars dissipate before my eyes.

All of the things : 

Body: -Belleza- Freya 
Skin : Lara Hurley- Beth
Head : CATWA Lona
Hair : Wasabi // Foxy Mesh Hair @ FaMESHed
Glasses : Peaches. - Koni Glasses
Choker : Eclat - Choker Heart
Tattoo : DAPPA - Amphora Tattoo. @ Winter Trend (Opens 8th Dec)
Shirt : EVANI - Annie Top
Hands : Slink Hands - Dynamic
Nails : Astralia - Compatible mesh nails system
Nail Polish : Hello Dave - Nail Appliers - Astralia - The Bold One
Shorts : BUENO-Sweet Shorts 
Shoes : Phedora ~ Alicia heels ~ group gift

What is real.

Pose : FOXCITY. Insomnia-3m
Background : taikou / gaien market backdrop 

I've been accused of being pretty interchangeable, of not being the same person from one day to the next. Although I feel that -mostly- i'm the same, I can understand where this viewpoint comes from.
In terms of SL, I feel like every day I can be something new. I can be a neko, a human, a minotaur (i've not tried that yet, but now it's on my to-do list. Do they come in girl-form?), a goth, a babygirl etc etc, and generally when my clothing changes my mood does a bit too. 
Where I believe my soul is ultimately the same daily, every interaction, every slice of information I learn *I* think shapes my view of the world. Sometimes I can come across as quite the pessimistic asshat, other times, I'm legit telling you how content I am with things exactly as they are, and in the next breath wishing I could do -this- better, or be -that- to someone. 
We're complicated and sometimes, while we're busy trying to figure out ourselves, we lose pieces to situations, other people, and often our own selves in an attempt to fit in, or shelter ourselves from former hurt.
Over the last few years especially, I've been trying to understand myself.
My theory is - I'm not a label.
Much like the premise of the film "The Breakfast Club" back in the 80's, we're more than just the  labels we attempt to define ourselves with, instead we're all just humans, peopleing.
I think we often forget that ideal. It's so easy to be "Hey, so you like Cats right? Guess that means you hate Dogs!" as though because you enjoy one aspect of a 'thing' you hate another 'thing' automatically. We're too quick to assume and judge for the most part, and in making those assumptions and judgments we're missing out on scenarios and other humans who could benefit our lives in ways we've never imagined.
I'm making myself a promise to attempt to be more open. I'm not afraid of being interchangeable, I'm not worried about enjoying different styles of dress, or having my opinions challenged (in an adult & constructive fashion of course). 
We're multifaceted individuals, and our past has shaped us in ways we can't define. No one person has walked your path, in your shoes, except YOU.
It's time we started accepting the good parts, while being unafraid to voice the negatives in a forward-thinking and positive light. Someone's hurt your feelings? TALK to them. If we don't understand each other, how can we ever be at peace?

All of the things :

Body: -Belleza- Freya 
Skin : Essences - Luz @ Shiny Shabby
Head : CATWA Lona
Ears : ^^Swallow^^ Rox Ears 
Tattoo : *Bolson / Tattoo - Mikhail
Lipstick & Eyeshadow : Found in Catwa Hud
Hair & Hat : Beusy: TripleSick Hair (Gacha)
Glasses : NS::  Chic Sunglasses
Jacket  & Shirt : COMPLEX / PARIS BOMBER
Hands : Slink Hands - Dynamic
Nails : Astralia - Compatible mesh nails system
Nail Polish : Hello Dave - Nail Appliers - Astralia - The French One
Rings : Astralia - Bayswater Slink Bento Rings
Pants (Omega Applier) : <Nar> Vee Knit Leggings 02 @ The Night Market
Boots : #EMPIRE - Laurel (Formerly @ Collabor88)

. we slay the beast and we eat .


Head ~ Catya (Catwa)
Body ~ Slink Hourglass
Skin ~ Holly – Milk 2 (Atomic) [out now @ The Arcade, purchased on MP]
Hair ~ F3 (Liquence)
Eyes ~ Astrid Eyes (Suicidal Unborn)
Bindi ~ the Heart Gem Moon Bindi (Olive)
Septum ~ Double Diamond Septum (PUNCH)
Horns ~ Hued Hellion Horns (Lovely Disarray)
Face Tat ~ Craft (W X T C H B A B Y) [no longer available]
Tattoo ~ No Love (DAPPA)
Top ~ Diascia (#EMPIRE)
Sweater ~ Fuzzy Cardigan (Cynful) [out now @ Fameshed]
Pants ~ Anya Pants (CandyDoll) [out now @ Uber]

2017 1203 We Love Role-Play Dec. Round – !LR Weapons & Cellar Door | UZME Poses "Dual Sword"


--- We<3RP (Dec 4th 1PM SLT~)

LR Weapons  !LR SWORD - Samur Katana
Cellar Door - CD Yuki Hourglass Midnight

--- UZME Poses

UZME Poses "Dual Sword"UZM_DualSword05U

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Giving all I can.

Pose : *!R.O!* Despacito BENTO Pose 
Location :  Consent (Adult)

I want to talk today about love.
I'm a firm believer that when you go into a relationship with a person, you go in with mostly no idea how that person 'prefers' to be loved. 
I think there are 5 ways you can show a person affection.

1. Words of affirmation.
2. Quality time
3. Receiving/Giving gifts
4. Acts of service
5. Physical touch.

I actually googled the correct terminology, and this seemed as close as I was gonna get, so we're gonna nod and smile and thank the google gods at this point haha.
Anywho, I'm an anxious little monkey, and whenever I tentatively step into a new relationship, be that romantic or platonic, it takes me a few days to get comfortable with someone's head-space, and then it takes me even longer to really learn about them, and I am highly suggestive to these 5 ways of showing I care.
For me, words of affirmation are difficult. I don't tend to blow smoke up the bottoms of those I care about unless it's a special occasion or I'm feeling especially sappy. For me, while words are lovely and I adore the power of the written word especially, they are just that. Words. I do try to tell people very often how much they mean to me, but i'm not terribly good at it. It makes me more awkward than usual!
Quality time. THIS. I need this. And I need to know when I'm getting it, or when you can't be available to me. I have a massive fear of abandonment, and if you just disappear I will be quite likely to take that badly. There are always exceptions to the rule. In SL if you were to tell me "Hey, so things are going great in RL and I just don't want to be around SL anymore" I'd be fully supportive and tell you I hope I never see you again (In a good way!), but if the reason for your absence is unknown, that's when I start to feel hurt. I fully admit I'm the worst for just needing time for myself though. I might drop away from you for a while because I need the space, and never reconnect because I feel terrible for not being there when I needed to take care of me first.
For me, giving/receiving gifts is a bit odd. It really depends on who it is and what the gift is. I'm all for seeing a gacha and playing it simply because a friend will like it.. but if we're talking something big and fancy, the chances are I'll get uncomfortable again. If I love you, you will get little bits I find that remind me of you. A bloody dolly for my favourite Punk friend, that shirt I wore in a man-Pickle post for a guy friend that I know he will enjoy. I like to make my gifts in RL too, like little jewelry pieces with stones that mean something personal, or birthday cards with private jokes. Not just "Here, I don't want this. You have it." Although sometimes that's appropriate too. I'm almost always awkward when someone makes something/gives me something though! It makes me very emotional!
I feel like the 'acts of service' thing is where I struggle the most. I'm a very giving person with my time, as a natural born people pleaser I have a hard time saying "NO" when someone asks me for my time. For me, the gift of your time is the most important. I don't care if that means we sit and eat Pizza together while talking about our bad days, or if it means I'm popping over to landscape your land, lend you that chair from my inventory, or show you how to do that one thing I know how to do in photoshop. I like being a go-to, and it's taken me a while to accept that sometimes other people like to do things for me, too... I will always be fairly independent, but I am learning to take a back-seat sometimes as well.. I'm just stubborn about that!
Physical touch within SL is obviously the most difficult. In RL I'm a tactile person, but hugging is awkward! I'll probably smack you around a bit if I like you as though I was a 5 year old schoolgirl with her first crush. "Ew, you smell funny!"
In a romantic relationship I like holding hands and uh.. without sounding creepy or pervy, stroking! Haha. I will stroke your hair, your leg, your hand...Public displays of affection again make me cringe, I'm a private person, damnit!
In SL terms this translates to cuddling/dancing I suppose. I don't want to go down the obvious route of "Hey bb, lets prim!" but I guess that's a thing too. Just seeing my avatar with the person I care about is enough for me. I also really like those clingy huds, they're fun for friends & romantic partners!

Welp, I've gone on forever and didn't know when to stop again lol. That's what I like.. I'm sure many of you are very different and have other ways of showing your love & affection. I just have to keep remembering that there are many ways you can do it, and just because I show my love through giving my time eagerly, other people might need more cuddles or more verbal support. Ultimately, we all crave feeling accepted, and I can only hope we give each other the patience to find out how we can accept people's quirks while giving and receiving the things we need as humans too.

All of the things :

Body & Feet : Body: -Belleza- Freya 
Skin : ItGirls - Catwa Skin Applier - Lore Pale
Head : CATWA Lona
Freckles/Moles : Bossie. freckles & beauty marks 
Eyebrows : Bossie.  alice eyebrows
Eyelids : Slink Mesh eyelids (No longer available in store, but if you ask really nicely in a note, you MIGHT get them from slink customer service like I did on an alt *coughs*)
Hair : Tableau Vivant \ Karen @ Kinky Event
Flower Headpiece : *LODE* Head Accessory - Vanessa Wreath [cereus garden] RARE (Gacha)
Collar : *BOOM* Ebba Collar/Choker (Previously @ ROMP)
Tattoo : DAPPA - Yeux Tattoo. Kinky Event
Nails : +Spellbound+ Spooky Salon // Sugar High (Gacha)
Rings : **RE** Luxy Rings Set
Panties : Tres Blah - Collette Lingerie - Romance