Category Archives: Tableau Vivant

13 dec 2017


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I choose to believe.


Pose : *!R.O!* Renew BENTO Pose (Note, this pose comes with a bird, I just swapped it out)
Robin : MishMish - Robins in the snow 
Location : Luane's World

Spoons.
Many of my friends know and understand the term and I feel like it should be a universal term for, well, everyone.
The original article is >here< and it's written in relation to Lupus. However, I feel like it should be noted that no matter who you are, you have a limited amount of spoons, daily.
The basic gist of the article is that you need a physical representation of the amount of energy you use each day. This could be spoons... this could be coins, basically, anything you can easily find multiples of. Each day, you are assigned a certain amount of "spoons". Let's say today, you have 12. That's a fair amount of spoons! Now what are you going to do with them?
For every activity you do today, you're going to give a spoon away.
Got out of bed? I'll take a spoon.
Brushed your teeth? I'll take another.
Showered? More spoons!
Gotten dressed? Yep. That'll be a spoon, please.

And the day kinda goes on like this.
The idea is to end up with no spoons, and no activities left to do. If you run out of spoons but for example, still need to take the rubbish out of the house, or a friend calls around unexpectedly and you have to act as a host for a while, you can borrow against your spoons for the next day - but that's going to leave you with less activities available for you tomorrow.. so you need to be extra careful you're not running on empty!
Sometimes, you have to do just that, which kind of leaves you in a difficult position.
Do you continue trying to do everything? Or do you take a rest-day and recover your spoons?

I love the idea of this "Spoon Theory". For me (and many around me) it makes mental illness, pain management & general day-to-day life so much easier to explain. Within my little group of people, if we're not in the mood to talk, we just use the term "I don't have enough spoons today", and we instantly understand each other and give the space that's needed, or offer support if necessary.

I like to think you can earn spoons back, too. Say you ask for help, maybe it's something as simple as you're hurting when you're putting your coat on, or you have a nagging issue you'd like some advice with. Having someone to help you with your coat, or offer a friendly ear could be a way of making you feel better, and thus grasping at a shiny new spoon to spend elsewhere that day.

It's really helped me in terms of having people understand why sometimes I just can't people. Hopefully, it'll help you, too.

All of the things :

Body, Hands & Feet : Maitreya Mesh Body - Lara
Skin : Essences - Rachel 
Head : CATWA Catya
Eyes : CATWA Mesh Eyes 
Eyes :  LOTUS. Lovely Eyes @ The Chapter Four
Brows : Viena :: Perfect Eyebrows Brown Bodyfy 
Blush : Izzie's - Winter Blush (Former Gift)
Ears Hairband : Included with the +Spellbound+ Honey hair
Hair : Tableau Vivant \ December Collabor88
Collar : Kenvie - Gold Ring Choker - Brown (You can get a version of this collar FREE @ Consent!)
Dress & Cardigan : =Zenith=Cardigan Sweater with Shirt Dress @ Kustom9 (Opens 15th Dec) (Note : If you have ANY type of boobs, this dress is going to flatten them. I mean pancake flat.)
Nails : Astralia - Compatible mesh nails system
NailPolish : alme.   Fall Palette II - Shiny 
Rings : Amala - The Lumi Stacking Rings 
Bracelet/Watch : E-Clipse Fiocco Watch (Former Gift)


NS Style – LOTD Dezember 3

Model & Photographer Nienor Savira more Pics by Flickr Hallo Leute! Ihr seht Heute: Eine Jacke und eine Jeans von Cynful (FaMeShEd, mesh), ein T-Shirt und Schuhe von Addams (mesh). Die Haare sind von Tableau Vivant (uber, mesh).  Die Augen bekommt Ihr bei Poetic Colors, die Ohren, als auch den Schmuck bei MG, RE, Cynful und Mandala. Weiterhin seht Ihr auf den Bildern den Maitreya Mesh-Body Lara samt […]

I Got The Christmas Tree


I got the Christmas tree, I got the memories
I got the box of decorations
I got the tinsel strung, the misteltoe's been hung
I got the means of celebration
I got the lights down low, the skies are dreamin' snow
I got the Yule log burning bright
And by the Christmas tree, I got you here with me
I got the perfect Christmas night

                          ~~Whovillie Medley, Trans Siberian Orchestra


CREDITS:

Hair - :::Sn@tch:::
Zuzu
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Tara Sweater Set 
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More Store Info:
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Boots - #EMPIRE
Edelweiss
 
Making Christmas 01, w/Prop
The Frozen Fair until December 23rd !!
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More Store Info:
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Skin/Applier/Lips - Lara Hurley
Rie (Lelutka)

.LeLutka. Chloe Bento Head & Rigged Eyes
Maitreya Lara body/Bento hands/feet

Static Animal - Tableau Vivant \ Squirrel
@ Tannenbaum until December 25th !!

Lighting - LUMIPro 2017


World of Glass

All you ever wanted
All that you desire
Walk the line with me
I'll take you higher
I feel your body shake
Put me on fire
All you ever wanted...
All that you desire...
Who's the prey
What's the play
God created
Stay with me
We are the ones God hated

I'm a falling stone in a world of glass
I'm a ticking bomb with a smiling mask

Can you ever let go?
~Tristania

World of Glass

CREDITS:

Opera Romance Gacha Set: Masquerade -  Noir, Tail ADDON RARE, Roses Tiara, Music Angel Dress RARE & Broken Mirrors by Moon Amore @ The Arcade *New*

December Hair by Tableau Vivant @ Collabor88 *New*

Glove Gacha Set: Finger Rings Gold, Bento Gloves Black, Claws Gold RARE, Arm Metall Gold by Meva @ Imaginarium *New*

Zodiac gacha - Wheel of fortune #10 RARE by Fortuna @ Imaginarium *New*

Pose: Ballerina 3 by Stonerella @ The Night Market *New*


Cracked Glass by Anc

Mystic Dew Drops Gold by Unkindness


❤ Breaking The Rules ❤ Thxxx Amber , Thxxx Bookiexmoon , Thxxx Annie , Thxxx Natalie , Thxxx Dryka , Thxxx SandStorm & Thxxx Bodyfy !!!

Skin : The Face. (New!!) Catwa Applier - Cristina ~ Blanc tone
Make Up : The Face. (New!!) Catwa - Crystal ~ Make-up palette (FULLPACK)
Hair Base : Wild Roots. (New!!)(Bodyfy) Owl Head Tattoo
Brows : .::Cheeky::. (New!!) My Brows #5! Catwa Applier
Hair : ~Tableau Vivant~ Undercut - curly - B+W
Dress : [[ Masoom ]] (New!!)(Cosmopolitan) Laonie Top
Panties : Mossu. (New!!)(The Arcade) Dominatrix(8).Panties - Black - Maitreya
Boots : _CandyDoll_ Rania Boots Black
Tattoo : [ATI] (New!!)(Bodyfy) Jayce...Maitreya Applier...
Necklace : -SECRETS- (New!!) Vincent Chains set (FATPACK)
Nails : The Face. (New!!) Bossy Nails